I Can't Explain Why We Live This Way
"Chaos and commotion wherever I go,
Love I try to follow."
~ Brett Dennen
What To Do Next
"I cannot imagine how we forgive ourselves for all of the things we didn’t say until it was too late."
~ Doc Luben
Lost within the Space Between
"Finding the dickhead inside [lead to] actually finding quite a liberation."
~ Damien Rice
A Constant Pestering
I want, I don’t want.
How can one live with such a heart?
~ Margaret Atwood
Perpetual Self-Confrontation
"We live in perpetual self-confrontation between the external success and the internal value. And the tricky thing, I'd say, about these two sides of our nature is they work by different logics."
~ David Brooks
We Need Reminders
"The choice isn’t between religion and the secular world, as it is now — the challenge is to learn from religions so we can fill the secular world with replacements for the things we long ago made up religion to provide. The challenge begins here."
~ Alain de Botton
We Don't Want to Want
"We cannot receive love, however, if we are not open to the raw and tender experience of wanting it. Suppressing or denying desire shuts down our openness to receiving nourishment, and thus only intensifies our hunger."
~ John Welwood
Our Desire to Transcend Isolation
"Creation seems to come out of imperfection. It seems to come out of a striving and a frustration. And this is where I think language came from."
What You've Learned to Do Without
You are a traveler,
you know the open, hostile smiles
of those stuck in their lives.
Make a fire.
~ Stephen Dunn
A Few Seconds of Acceptance
"This simple act of acceptance – which may only last a few seconds – offers a taste of that open space of essence love, an acceptance of the warmth that is your basic nature, the heart of your own being."
~ Tsoknyi Rinpoche
Where Hate Won't Grow
There’s a place in my brain
where hate won’t grow.
~ Naomi Shihab Nye
A Way Through
"The quite cynical response would be to say, Why we love nihilism in pop culture is that it saves us having to be burdened with it. It saves us from feeling it. We can enjoy it in our rooms. We can get off on it. And then we let it go and we go back to work." ~ Simon Critchley
It's Okay to Feel
It’s okay to feel, deeply.
It’s okay to not know.
It’s okay to play
on the raw edge of life.
If We Didn't Try to Hold the Flux
“What both science and at least some philosophical and even religious traditions tell us is that the world is impermanent. Nothing in it stays the same. We don't stay the same. Our bodies don't stay the same. The people that we love and the things that we love don't stay the same. That's just the truth of the matter, that there's this constant impermanence, this constant flux. And some philosophers have argued over the years that we should just embrace that. We would be freer if we didn't try to hold that flux for a moment.”
Alison Gopnik
Pain and Response to Pain Teaches Understanding
"The more personal you are willing to be and the more intimate you are willing to be about the details of your own life, the more universal you are."
~ Sherwin Nuland