Making Sense as a Second Language
Making sense is our second language.
Sensing comes first.
How to Be Perfect
"Take a deep breath.
Do not smart off to a policeman.
Do not step off the curb until you can walk all the way across the
street. From the curb you can study the pedestrians who are trapped
in the middle of the crazed and roaring traffic.
Be good.
Walk down different streets.
Backwards."
~ Ron Padgett
What You Missed
"Mrs. Nelson explained how to stand still and listen
to the wind, how to find meaning in pumping gas,
how peeling potatoes can be a form of prayer."
~ Brad Aaron Modlin
I'll Do Better
"I will always hold you close,
But I will learn to let you go.
I promise I’ll do better."
Sleeping at Last
What Makes a Place Feel Like Home?
"Home is a place where you feel accepted, whether you are Jacob leaving Egypt to be buried in his true home, or a young teen who desires to feel accepted by family and society. I urge everyone to continue to strive for good character and to accept people who may look or act differently. In this way we will all experience home; we will all receive blessings."
~ Eleanor Teweles
Enjoy the Contradiction
"I've come to believe that part of being who I am is being uncomfortable."
~ Claire Hoffman
Turn Toward the Problems
"In my experience, there’s just no substitute for actually going and seeing things."
~ Matt Damon
Things We Are Saying To Ourselves
"An inner voice always used to be an outer voice. We absorb the tone of others. A harassed or angry parent. The menacing threats of an elder sibling keen to put us down. The words of a schoolyard bully or teacher who seemed impossible to please. We internalize the unhelpful voices, because at certain key moments in the past, they sounded compelling. The authority figures repeated their messages over and over until they got lodge in our own way of thinking."
The Past Alive
a game we played
so many times
I finally taught my sons,
not knowing what it was,
until too late, I’d done.
~ Patrick Phillips
Our Shadows Fall Away
This brilliant light is brighter than we’ve known,
Without our darkness to prove it so.
Still, we can’t help but to examine it,
To add our question marks to periods.
~ Sleeping At Last
Is This What Being Vulnerable Feels Like?
i’ll run the risk
of being intimate with brokenness.
~ Sleeping At Last
Before You Know It
"How’s this poem for its ability to collapse all the years from childhood to middle age in a matter of fifteen short lines?"
The Only Calibration that Counts
"That's the paradox: the only time most people feel alive is when they're suffering, when something overwhelms their ordinary, careful armour, and the naked child is flung out onto the world. That's why the things that are worst to undergo are best to remember."
~ Ted Hughes